This book is inspired by the daily struggles people face throughout life. The lessons provided in this informational and inspirational piece will encourage good habits while disposing bad ones. They will also offer a systematic approach to eliminating or smoothing out the rough edges that appear to cause blockages and other distractions hindering one’s success. Part one, Trinity of Life, explains the three most influential factors shaping one’s life: faith, family, and friends. Faith, family, and friends correlate to the brain, heart, and spine. Faith is like a brain because it affects one’s thought process and decision making. Family is like a spine because it provides the backbone support one may need to fall back on. Friendship is a like a heart because it pumps blood through the many vessels in life that keep one feeling youthful, fascinating, and fabulous!
Part two, Challenge of Change, gives a roadmap to success, while including the necessary changes one should make in order to build the foundation for success. Success can encompass many aspects of life, not just money. Success is simply a confirmation of order. Where there is no order, there is no success. Once one has made the appropriate adjustments to his or her attitude, career objectives, finances, acquaintances, and lifestyle; then success has been achieved. Consequently, the next time one says, “I’m good”, he or she will actually mean it.
In short, I'm a work of ART (Ability, Responsibility, & Tranquility). My goal is to Attract, Retain, and Teach an audience between the ages of 14 to about 50 and beyond the disciplines of life. I've been blessed with the gift of giving knowledge and creating peace within the souls of many who are starving for spiritual satisfaction. I'm no prophet, but I do believe that I am one of God's chosen spiritual leaders and sources of information on how to walk a straight path down a crooked road.
The fact that you must move on from some people inspired me to touch on this topic. Every relationship you build is not meant to last forever. Some relationships are just not conducive to your journey to success. Those will eventually weaken on its own because the two of you will become detached. The one who holds on to a dead bond is wasting valuable time. You don't have time to waste when chasing your dreams. The other person will either find a way he or she can help or step back and let you do your thing. Too many people never move forward in life because they let people get in the way. If you really want to help them, motivate them by helping yourself. The wise ones will take notes and offer support.
There is no easy way of telling a person you can’t kick it with him or her anymore because he or she no longer adds value to your life, if he or she ever did. You should never just stop speaking to a person because the two of you are on different levels, but you have to find a way to separate yourself without stirring up dissension. Not every relationship is going to simply grow apart. Sometimes, you just have to set yourself apart from the “in crowd”. You will get signs it is time to move on from someone. Your conversations will start to change, your choice of venues might even change, and your tolerance of certain behaviors will start to change as well.