If you've been asking yourself questions about why it seems that we just can't get it right in our relationships, and you want more, this is the blueprint to help you navigate during your search. In this book the author uses his life experiences, and those of several men and women of different ethnicities, ages, and cultures to give relationship advice to both sexes. The author has travelled the world and put in over 5 years of research travelling to over 25 countries discussing these topics. The Truth provides answers to today's most pressing issues about relationships, and lays out the roadmap to help you navigate. This book will appeal to readers interested in relationships self-help books.
Songwriter, Music producer & engineer, graphics designer, NOTHING that screams author. Father of 2 boys and a girl, Husband, and now Author. Never intended to become an author it just sort of happened. I've been playing the piano since about 7. Moving into the next phase of my life helping people with their relationships.
I knew that most of the time since I knew how to be a gentleman, it wouldn’t be hard to get what I wanted without lying or trying to “run game.” At worst, I’d be considered manipulative, and I was okay with that as long as I wasn’t purposely lying or being disrespectful about it. But just be honest, straight, and real about your intentions. Women respect this more than they dislike it. If you lie, and all those months pass, they’re going to get to that infamous I-hate-you-I-wish-I-never-would-have-met-you stage I mentioned earlier.
Last but not least, women like guys who can articulate themselves even if they’re ghetto or have those types of tendencies. I told you that this won’t be a book of degreed intellectual talk and big words, but here is where you should use your words and intellect and not be obnoxious.
Women like a guy that can hold a conversation with them, even if all they’re talking about is nonsense in your opinion. So, women want you to make love to their minds before you make love to them. You can do this quickly and efficiently by having a decent conversation with them. If you are good at conversation, you will have them talking about sex and personal things without you even mentioning it. I’ve done this quite a few times by not mentioning sex, and simply having a conversation. So what did we learn? Conversation rules the nation. This isn’t a new concept. A slick talker can get things done. Guys, women already know from the moment they talk how far they are willing to go. The question is, will you say or do anything to screw it up? Chances are, you probably will. Most men do, at least the ones who don’t get a lot of attention from women, or who don’t have a lot of experience. Have a simple conversation with her. If you’re staring at her breasts or any other part of her body besides her eyes, you can save face by saying something like this: “I think you’re gorgeous.” You could interrupt her, and then apologize and tell her you couldn’t help but let her know that she was beautiful, and that you couldn’t let another second pass by without letting her know. If you aren’t getting anywhere within the first couple of minutes, or she picks up her phone and looks like she’s texting or checking an email more often than once while you’re talking, then leave her alone after that date because chances are she isn’t interested. She has more important things to tend to than you at that moment. Of course there are a few situations where an exception can be made. For instance, if she has children and one of them might be sick, and she is constantly checking on them. If she is genuinely into you, she won’t be disrespectful by not giving you the attention you deserve. This goes for guys too. The ratio of women to men is basically around 8 to 1 (in any major metropolitan area). So it’s in your favor anyway. You will find more women saying they can’t find a good man than men saying they can’t find a good woman. Most men have messed it up for a woman that could be a potentially good woman, so she may have woman scorned syndrome. If this is the case then move on quickly. If you’re a gentleman, and you’re holding a conversation that she seems not to be involved in, then she isn’t interested. I’m just saving you some time, and saving her some irritation. Don’t call her after this. If she sends you a text afterwards explaining her behavior then consider another meeting. But if you don’t hear from her, chances are she’s glad that date is over. This is what they want to say but they don’t want to hurt your feelings or be in an awkward situation. This chapter is pretty short because it’s simple to recognize the basics. Be a gentleman and act like you have some home training at the very least.