Suzanne Detar

Sports & Outdoors

Author Profile

Suzanne  Detar

Suzanne Detar is an award-winning writer, athlete, and newspaper publisher in Charleston, South Carolina. Don’t Lose the Ball in the Lights and Other Life Lessons from Sports is the first in Sue’s Home Grown Wisdom Series. The next book in the series, Be Goofy, has a planned 2019 release. Sue graduated from Temple University School of Law in 1991, where she served on the editorial staff of the Law Review. Although she maintains her law licenses in Pennsylvania, New Jersey and South Carolina, Sue retired from the practice of law in 1997. She served as an adjunct professor of political science at Charleston Southern University from 2002 to 2003. In 2003, she birthed a weekly newspaper on Daniel Island, SC. Now in its 14th year, The Daniel Island News continues to thrive, winning many writing, photography, advertising and design awards each year. Sue earned eight Division I varsity letters from Lafayette College in field hockey and lacrosse. She was instrumental in starting two successful youth sports programs in her community – a swim team and a middle school basketball program. Learn more about the author, the Home Grown Wisdom Series, and other upcoming books by Sue at www.SuzanneDetar.com.

Books

Don't Lose the Ball in the Lights and Other Life Lessons from Sports

Sports & Outdoors

Don’t Lose the Ball in the Lights and other Life Lessons from Sports is the first in the Home Grown Wisdom Series. Presented in short, devotion style chapters, the book sends the reader on a journey of learning, self-examination and self-improvement. Each chapter is based on a sports themed story – ranging from basketball to bowling, lacrosse to skiing, dance to gymnastic, and many other sports in between – and covering a wide range of levels – from little league, through high school and college, and into Olympic and professional sports. Each chapter ends with an invitation to consider and self-reflect and leaves the reader a little wiser after each day of reading.

Book Bubbles from Don't Lose the Ball in the Lights and Other Life Lessons from Sports

The New Season

It's also good to remember that even in the midst of a losing season, there are some plays that do make the highlight reel.

Big Decisions

This chapter examines the retirement stories of several high profile professional athletes (Michael Jordan, Justine Henin, Ricky Williams and Annika Sorenstam). By examining their decisions, we can reflect on our own decision making. American monk Thomas Merton wrote, "To make good choices, I must develop a mature and prudent understanding of myself and that will reveal to me my real motives and intentions." What are your true motivations when making big decisions?

Work Your Way Out of a Slump

"Slump? I ain't in no slump...I just ain't hitting." - Yogi Berra. This chapter relates real life Major League Baseball players' hitting slumps to life slumps. And Yogi Berra always seems to put everything in the perfect perspective!

Great Father's Day and Graduation Gift

This excerpt tackles the problem of being distracted – both as an athlete and in many other areas of our lives (parent, lover, co-worker, spouse, sibling, etc.). Don’t Lose the Ball in the Lights and other Life Lessons, presented in short, devotion style chapters, sends the reader on a journey of learning, self-examination and self-improvement. Each chapter is based on a sports themed story – ranging from basketball to bowling, lacrosse to skiing, dance to gymnastic, and many other sports in between – and covering a wide range of levels – from little league, through high school and college, and into Olympic and professional sports. Each chapter ends with an invitation to consider and self-reflect. It’s the perfect gift for dad or the graduate in your life!

Give Your Best Effort

Always ringing in the back of my head during warm-ups, or other drills, was my Dad’s voice, "Practice like you play the game." This chapter and book bubble stresses the importance of giving your best effort on and off the field.

Breathe Easy

Proper breathing techniques can improve performance, both on the athletic field and in life. Whether you’re looking to improve your times in events, add power to your tennis stroke, or to simply clear your mind, breathing deeply and properly will improve your athletic performance and help clear your mind so you can attack projects, dilemmas and everyday living with renewed vigor, confidence and peacefulness.

Family Traits

Family traits, good or bad, can be passed along. It may be nature or nurture, but the examples in this chapter highlight that we can train ourselves to hone our positive family traits and to overcome those that limit us.

Getting endorsements for your book

Five-time Olympian Dara Torres, the holder of 12 Olympic Medals, including 3 Gold Medals, endorsed this book - Don't Lose the Ball in the Lights and Other Life Lessons from Sports. The excerpt from the book, included here is a chapter that explains Torres’ last Olympics in Beijing in 2008, where at 41 years of age she won the silver medal in the 50 meter freestyle and in the 4 x 100 relay. But the chapter isn’t about her athleticism – it’s about her sportsmanship and her ability to see beyond herself in a high stakes Olympic moment. Having read the chapter, Torres endorsed the book with these words, “I’ve spent my life trying to be the best I can be in the sport of swimming and it’s very rewarding to know I’ve inspired others through sports. I’m so excited to see a book capturing great champions at their best…giving back and trying to positively affect the lives of others. That is truly a campion.”

Visualization improves performance

Research in the field of Sports psychology proves that visualization improves performance on the athletic field. In the chapter of the book titled "The Psychology of the Triangle," I use specific athletic examples of successful visualization in athletic endeavors to encourage the reader to put visualization into practice in their family and work lives as well. Whether practicing for the big game or for difficult life situations, imagining a positive outcome and how to achieve it will bring a measure of success and peace to our lives.

Good Communication

This chapter on good communication references the pairs figure skating team of Ekaterina Gordeeva and Sergei Grinkov. It also references baseball’s pitcher/catcher duo of Steve Carlton and Tim McCarver and tennis doubles partners Bob and Mike Bryan. These pairs were so effective and successful, in part, because of their amazing communication. This chapter is a reminder that communication is hard work; that unspoken communication isn’t communication at all; and that the only way people know what we want or expect of them is to tell them.

Finding Purpose

Writing a sports themed column (Field Smarts), and then turning it into a book (Don't Lose the Ball in the Lights and Other Life Lessons from Sports), created a purpose that meshed my love of sports with my skills of writing and inspiring. How can you mesh your skills with your interests to find your purpose?

It just doesn't matter!

Who remembers the irreverent but adorable Bill Murray character from the movie Meatballs? This excerpt is taken from the chapter in the book that teaches us that placing unhealthy pressure on winning or being perfect is not necessary. If you make a mistake or come in second or second to last, just carry on. In the overall course of life, it just doesn't matter!

Authors owe thanks!

Publishing a book isn't just about the act of writing. So many people help the author along the way. This is true of all books. Highlighted here, in a portion of my “Acknowledgements,” are my thanks to the athletes of all ages and skill levels whose stories inspire throughout the book. For me, and for most writers, there are many more “thanks” to give - to editors, photographers, designers, family members, friends and life helpers.

Good Communication

This chapter on good communication also included references to baseball’s pitcher/catcher duo - Steve Carlton and Tim McCarver - and to the tennis playing Bryan brothers. The skaters, ball players and tennis pair all had good communication that led to amazing victories. This chapter asks you to consider: How’s your communication?

It's Opening Day!

I've been a sports fan all my life. And and lifelong Phillies' fan! It's opening day - I'm celebrating the official release of my book and the Phillies' home opener. The excerpt is one of the earliest lessons I learned from baseball - Never give up!

Set up Boundaries

Sometimes not having boundaries can have significant negative impact on our lives.

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